
Hi! I’m Sasha
I’m the author of the cult favorite Quirkyalone: A Manifesto for Uncompromising Romantics (Harper SanFrancisco) and To-Do List: From Buying Milk to Finding a Soul Mate, What Our Lists Reveal About Us (Simon & Schuster). My work has been featured on CNN, in the New York Times, NPR, the London Guardian, Vogue and more.
Since 2000, I’ve been helping women and men build self-worth and shed societal baggage to live life on their own terms. Freedom, love, + self-love: that’s what I’m all about. Sign up for my newsletter and you’ll get access to the world-famous quiz to determine if you are a quirkyalone or quirkytogether. You’ll also get my blog posts on how to be true to yourself and live your life with love and adventure at any age.
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To get to know me and my perspective, read my books Quirkyalone (HarperSF) and To-Do List (Simon & Schuster). Wet, my memoir, is on the way. Some people call my books life-changing. Could they change yours?
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My work has been featured
Everywhere from the New York Times to CNN … here I am on a talk show in Argentina talking about the growing trend of self-marriage.

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Sasha’s Blog
Are you “too nice”?
This month in my yearlong small group coaching program Turned-On Living we are looking at patterns of being “nice” and perhaps “too nice.” We are looking at whether ”nice” is honest. May is the Anti-People Pleasing month in Turned-On Living. Every month has a theme in...
Dear Dr. Phil: Why you should have me on your show about self-marriage
As I'm preparing to write my behind-the-scenes blog post about being on Dr. Phil (not using Chat GPT, which I am still resisting!), I uploaded this video to YouTube. After our initial phone call, the producers asked me to make a video telling Dr. Phil why they should...
A podcast about listening to the body to make big life decisions, overcoming New England Puritanism, and more
It was a massive pleasure to talk with fellow Rhode Islander Dave Ursillo for his podcast the New Story. In Dave's former life, he was, according to his LinkedIn profile, "a political insider, policy nerd and aspiring Presidential speechwriter at governmental offices...
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