
Hi! I’m Sasha
I’m the author of the cult favorite Quirkyalone: A Manifesto for Uncompromising Romantics (Harper SanFrancisco) and To-Do List: From Buying Milk to Finding a Soul Mate, What Our Lists Reveal About Us (Simon & Schuster). My work has been featured on CNN, in the New York Times, NPR, the London Guardian, Vogue and more.
Since 2000, I’ve been helping women and men build self-worth and shed societal baggage to live life on their own terms. Freedom, love, + self-love: that’s what I’m all about. Sign up for my newsletter and you’ll get access to the world-famous quiz to determine if you are a quirkyalone or quirkytogether. You’ll also get my blog posts on how to be true to yourself and live your life with love and adventure at any age.
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My Books
To get to know me and my perspective, read my books Quirkyalone (HarperSF) and To-Do List (Simon & Schuster). Wet, my memoir, is on the way. Some people call my books life-changing. Could they change yours?
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My work has been featured
Everywhere from the New York Times to CNN … here I am on a talk show in Argentina talking about the growing trend of self-marriage.

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Sasha’s Blog
The True Story of My (Ill-Advised?) Appearance on the Dr. Phil Show…
Over the last year, many people have asked me, “How did that happen?” In other words, “How did you wind up as a guest expert on the Dr. Phil Show?” Yeah, how did that happen? It’s a good question, and a story that apparently must be told. There is nothing quite like...
Coming soon: Pussywalking Down the Aisle to a Soul Commitment Ceremony
In a week, the intrepid women who make up my Turned-On Living 2023 group are coming to our weekend retreat in Providence, Rhode Island, where I now call home. This is a momentous moment! We will be together in the flesh! We have been together in a yearlong adventure...
Filling My Cup with Pleasure… in a Flower Bath in Bali
Receiving a traditional Balinese healing massage and then soaking in a flower bath in Bali at the extremely special Karsa Spa was one of the highlights of my (first) three weeks on this magical island. If you are headed to Bali anytime soon, I definitely recommend you...
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