Dating Advice From My Spirit Animal Jonathan Van Ness

by | Apr 29, 2022 | Dating, Quirkyalone, Relationships, Self-marriage | 2 comments

Life is feeling a bit overwhelming lately, and so in today’s newsletter, I decided to go light with this dollop of joy and enlightenment from my spirit animal Jonathan Van Ness, author of Love That Story, and star of Queer Eye and host of Getting Curious.

There are a lot of reasons to love Jonathan, but I think one thing I admire most is his unabashed enthusiasm. He often sounds like a nine-year-old girl getting super excited about something he truly believes in, and that is such an attractive quality in an adult.

Drew Barrymore asked JVN (as he is known), “What is your advice for people who are actively dating?”

And by the way, this is excellent advice for life, and work, as well as dating.

JVN: “Even if you are looking to be in relationship with someone, we always are going to come back to our relationships with ourselves.

In yoga this one time we learned, we all learned that we all have this invisible magnet inside of us that is positively or negatively charged, you know. I think when you are working on yourself, it’s going to charge that magnet in such a way that the person you are meant to be with is going to vibe towards you anyway, so you really can’t lose by investing in yourself and your relationship with yourself anyway.”

Drew: “This is why I asked you this question!”

2 Comments

  1. Jill E Summerville

    JVN is truly a quirky beacon! Every time I see him, I soak up his unabashed willingness to be present.

    Reply
    • Sasha Cagen

      Absolutely. He’s got a very polished magnet inside of him radiating outwards. Great to hear from you Jill.

      Reply

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