Is it time to commit to yourself?

Have you spent your life chasing happiness in relationships?

Do you want to take the time and space to make a commitment to yourself and your life?

Self-marriage (or soul marriage, as some call it) is the ritual of adulthood that we are lacking. 

I’ve helped both single and married women tie the knot with themselves.

Self-marriage is a creative, spiritual, and life-changing way of taking charge for your own happiness.

Bless Your Life will set you on a course of self-appreciation, self-worth, and self-respect for the rest of your life.

You’ll identify your core values, learn tools of self-compassion, and reflect on what you want to commit to in your life. You might still fight with yourself at times, hey–no marriage is perfect!

By its very nature, self-marriage will uplevel your relationship with yourself and your current or future partner(s).

You don’t have to wear a white wedding dress and invite 100 people.

I didn’t, and most of the women I have helped to marry themselves do not.

Marrying yourself is a creative adventure that we will co-design together. 

How Bless Your Life Works

Bless Your Life is the pre-marital counseling you never knew was possible–the premarital counseling where we talk about what it means to be in a good relationship with yourself.

The program is six months leading up to your big day. For the first months we lay the foundation of a healthy relationship with yourself.

The pre-marital counseling will give you all the tools you need for a long and happy marriage with yourself. I teach you key tools and we focus on the issues that most need attention in your life.

As it gets closer to the big day, we design the ceremony. We also talk about what you are going to do for your honeymoon!

We talk 2x a month for 50 minutes to an hour. We talk via Skype or phone so you can do this work from the comfort of your own home. 

Between the session, you will have a self-love plan to keep you moving.

Why I Created the Bless Your Life Coaching Program

As the author of Quirkyalone: A Manifesto for Uncompromising Romantics (HarperCollins), I first wrote about self-marriage more than a decade ago getting to know the stories of women who married themselves after giving away too much in relationships.

Later I experienced the adventure of self-marriage myself at age 40 when I wasn’t married, or close to married. I wanted to do something deep and profound as a ritual of self-acceptance to mark a big birthday. Ever since I have been helping other women and men marry themselves in their own unique ceremonies.

Self-marriage is a concrete way of committing to ourselves and our lives…and if there is anything this world needs, it’s a whole lot more self-love.

Some people assume that marrying yourself means you want to be single forever. That’s not the case for me or most women I’ve helped. I’m also passionate about healthy, happy relationships. Self-marriage is one of the best things you can do as a foundation for a relationship with someone else. To meet someone else, we need to meet ourselves.

My thought leadership and advice on self-marriage has been featured extensively from the New York Times to ABC News-Nightline, making me one of the leading voices on this subject. To learn more, you can read my interview with Vogue on “Why Women Are Choosing to Marry Themselves.”

You can also check out this fun interview I did with Tele-Noche, the leading news program in Argentina. (I married myself in the Japanese Gardens in Buenos Aires, and that’s where this interview was shot.)

Can I help you?

Let’s find out.