I’m Sasha Cagen, an executive and life coach with a focus on helping women 40+.

I’m also the author of the cult hit book Quirkyalone: A Manifesto for Uncompromising Romantics (Harper SanFrancisco) and To-Do List: From Buying Milk to Finding a Soul Mate, What Our Lists Reveal About Us (Simon & Schuster), and a tango-obsessed world traveler.



I was once a Silicon Valley social media startup founder, but I ran away to South America to “listen to my body.” That story will be told in my forthcoming memoir Wet. That shake-up in my life led me to launch my coaching business, Sasha’s School of Turned-On Living, helping women to tune into what they really want and make it happen.

My career has been a series of creative projects, from books to companies. If anything has been constant, it’s been change—and the willingness to tolerate the discomfort and fear of risk-taking and trying new things to feel alive.

My unique empowerment methodologies such as “self-marriage,” “quirkyalone,” and “pussywalking” have been featured in 100+ media outlets worldwide, from NPR and the New York Times to the Guardian and CNN.

Sasha’s School of Turned-On Living helps women reconnect with their worth and power by reconnecting with their bodies from the inside out. I help you make decisions by consulting your pussy 😉 Yes I did just write that sentence in my bio!

An intro to me + my work

In these videos, you can see me interact with Anderson Cooper on CNN–and my fabulous coaching clients. From Quirkyalone to Pussywalking…it’s all here.


Learn more about me

Click on these links to learn more about me and what I offer.

See/listen to my media appearances on/in CNN with Anderson Cooper, NPR, Vogue, New York Times, and more.

Watch my Authors@Google Talk on To-Do Lists and What They Reveal About Us

Get to know me and my perspective on life and relationships by listening to these intimate podcast interviews.

Read my “wild bio” with more biographical detail.

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Where in the world is Sasha?

Update: In 2023, I’m primarily in the Boston Area (Rhode Island) with sojourns in Buenos Aires for tango and other fun travel planned to Bali! After three years of staying put, this will be a year of travel.